Venus in cancer finding it really hard getting over a BIG crush...?

It's just a crush. You couldn't even bring yourself to speak to the guy, so how can you have all of this feeling for him? It doesn't make much sense. As a Venus in Cancer myself, when I really want someone and I don't see things happening over a natural course of time, I go and make an attempt to grab it for myself. I think it's time to give it a kick in the *** and get on with life.